Who would you rather meet an quiet introvert or a pushing introvert

I am always in a conversation it to be noisy but to pipe in about something but not to much about it bc then someone thinks you want to have a hearty conversation and I don’t. So there R different ways you can receive me. The quiet introvert I’m here bc it’s my social time to make my family happy so when this is done I’m going to pick up some food and eat it home. When I’m not this person you can see pushy introvert. Where I’m the and yea me too but what did you think. The moment the conversation slows downs I keep it going again. Or change the conversation and change it again. I don’t really realize I’m comfortable at the time so I let my mouth go and I’m not thinking first. But who like pushy, no one? There’s also shy and quiet, loud and funny, flirty and perceptive,sad and a feeling of loss, depressed and lonely, happy. So basically happy sad or neutral. I just feel these things when I have made connections like friendships and I need care or take care of me. If you are alone long time do you still mourn relationships. Or are you use to being alone not lonely? Or are opposite when your without you mourn it and happier with friends? Tell me one and did your family or friends want that for you so that’s the reason you missed it bc you didn’t want them to worry about you?